perspectives

My fear of linked-in

Monday, July 21st, 2008
by Brian Daniel Eisenberg

After reading this conversation thread on Friendfeed, I started to comment, but did a quick cut and paste into this here blog post. What follows was my original comment (not posted) that I would like to expand upon here. Then I’d like to get your feedback on Friendfeed, Twitter, or whatever stream you like to post your comments to. I really could care less where you reply, just make it findable!

Regarding my use of Linked In -

“I must admit that I have a LI account, but I have not updated it in probably 6 years. I’ve been working with the same team for 8+ years, having weathered 4 M&A events and countless reorgs. I’ve come to ignore Linked In because after having gone through the first M&A event, the only time I would get Linked In email would be when friends are riffed and forced to move on to other new positions in the industry.”

*Expanding on comment here*

This became a recurring pattern after a while, where the only times I’d ever get email updates From Linked In were from people who were let go or less often just quit for other opportunities. I found myself trying to avoid accepting any of the “friend requests” or whatever their term is for adding people to your network, and I just stopped using it altogether.

I haven’t logged into my account in years and if you check out my profile, you’ll see that the last position I posted was “Senior Product Manager”, which was 2 companies and three job title’s ago.

I’m tempted to login to Linked In and update my profile, just so my stuff is accurate, but I have this recurring fear that all those people who tried to “friend” me and all of my CURRENT colleagues are going to come out of the woodwork and start picking my profile apart.

Many of my professional colleagues are not on Twitter, Friendfeed, or most of the other social networking sites I use regularly, and I’m not sure that I want them to “invade” the communities that I participate in outside of my dayjob.

I’m all for transparency, but I’m having a very hard time figuring out the right balance between personal vs my professional uses of these socnets.

What do you think? I’m very curious to hear what other people think and where I’ll find the most valuealbe advice.

On geo-location-based socnets

Thursday, June 26th, 2008
by Brian Daniel Eisenberg

I’m a big fan of geotagging photos, but I’m not quite sure how I feel about location-based social networking sites. The only real way to fully understand the implications of geotagging your location and blasting it out to your “friends” (cough cough *stalkers*), is to take these shiny new socnets out for a spin.

I signed up for Britekite when it first went into beta, but it took me just up until about a week ago to spend some time figuring out its inner workings. I’ve finally mastered the basic sms techniques for “checking in” and I’m able to more or less geo-tag myself as I see fit. Here’s a recent map of where I’ve checked in:

There are countless implications for broadcasting this much meta out across the internets and I’m sure this is even more of a problem for women with stalker types, ex-bff’s, and other wacko’s. Security is of the uptmost importance in these geo-location-based socnets, and as soon as the “friend circle” is breached by unwanted lurker/stalker types, the whole thing could implode. Personally, if I don’t feel like broadcasting my location, then maybe all I need to do is just send bogus geo data when I checkin, but that would defeat the purpose.

For now, I’ll continue playing around with Britekite. I’ve got invites in case anyone wants in.